I just asked my beautiful wife girl friend the marry me and she said yes! We are both very busy I work for a major oil company and she teaches. She has given me many ideas but I find myself jumping from website to website. I would like to do some of the leg work for her but just dont know where to start. Most of these wedding web sites are based around women even when I register they ask if im the bride or brides maid! WTF.... I'm searching for a place along side a ciff on the northern coast of California any ideas! thanks to all.