we went over to my FMIL house the other day and she asked if it was going to be a dry or wet wedding! we said probably wet. she then asked us why! we said because its are day and that what we want! then she told us that if its a wet wedding his grandparents proabably wont be there long or at all! (they dontl agree with alcohol,christian that dont like it). We said its a once and a life time thing and we want it there bc we want a few drink not to get trashed! and our friends want to and some of his and my family want to too! she said exactly why do u need it there for the once and a life time thing! we konw there are people on both sides of our families that dont drink but they wont throw a fit over it! they will just deal with it! we had an idea that we would split the time half would be dry-with all the mother son,father daughter and first dance. the boquet and garter toss and speeches done and meal and cake done. then the drinking will start so that the people that dont want to be there anymore and see the alcohol can leave early! what do u guys think? any other ideas?!?
Sorry so long! Thanks!!