Hi everyone. I am in my friend's wedding. Her Aunt is the MOH and I'm a bridesmaid. The groom has 3 groomsmen on his side.
My friend and I are very close, much like sisters without the blood. She is also very close to my husband.
I knew my kids were not invited to the wedding. Woohoo! Was my first thought (I'm a stay at home mommy and don't get out much lol). I agreed to be a bridesmaid and the festivities began. A few weeks ago I learned my husband was not invited to the wedding. At this point the dress has been purchased. I've been told by close friends and family this is poor etiquette and that I should pull out of the wedding. My husband is very upset, hurt, by not being invited. Since I don't make any money, he has been paying for all the odds and ends of the dress, shoes, shower, bachelorette party, shower gift and wedding gift.
I think we were both floored that he's not invited. It is a very small wedding, but I'm the only person without my significant other there.
The bride has been super stressed and upset (her family is upset that she's not getting anything she wants...father daughter dance, because her fiancé doesn't want it; but that's a whole other story. I'm really torn on bringing this up to her. I'm not going to just pull out, I wouldn't do that to her. Where I'm torn is, do I talk to her and try to get him invited or do I just smile and ignore it and move on?