I just wanted to share/vent and I thought this might be a good place.... I am TERRIFIED of being lifted in the chair during the hora!! Last time I did it was my bat mitzvah when I thought it was fun. Now...not so much. I close my eyes and have visions of tipping over backwards and falling out. Mostly I just see overexcited cousins and uncles rushing forward and not paying attention, stepping on my dress and lifting me up, either ripping my dress or pulling me out of the chair.
Anyone else have chair anxiety??
PS - as a side question, do parents typically go up in the chairs at weddings? My parents keep talking about going up, but I thought it was just the bride and groom.