My brother and his (new) wife and my boyfriend and I are not close. No issues or past problems , we just arent close. They live 45 min away, lead a totally different life then us and dont have a lot to say. When we told them we were expecting another baby ( after 2 years of failed fertility reatments) they just looked at us and said "OK", which is so them. We want to have FUN people in our wedding party who will ADD to our special day.
I feel like I have to ask them to be in the wedding party, but my Boyfriend says if I dont want them I dont have to ask them.
Is there anyway to ask someone if they want to be in the wedding, but let them know that you are perfectly OK with it if they chose not to be??
Sinisa & Debbie.
Joined together in Friendship- united Forever in Love.
Proud Parents to : Luca 3-17-2008 & Marco 1-27-2012. Mommy and Daddy are getting Married on August 19th, 2012!