I am working on my guest list and something keeps vexing me. Fiance's friend has a girlfriend who neither of us can stand or get along with. Things are actually very icy between the 3 of us (me, fiance and the GF) to the point where we ignore each other when in social settings - even when standing next to one another.
She doesn't really get along with anyone in our social circle and I feel her presence would just make things tense. She and fiance's friend live together but have a very rocky relationship (they breakup/make-up frequently) and I know traditional etiquette says have I to invite her. At a mutal friends' wedding she got very drunk and was a total nuisance. Am I wrong in wanting to just leave her off the guest list? Maybe just inviting him with "Guest" written on the outside so she takes the hint??
Help