I just have to vent...
My FI is amazing, and my family approved of me dating him from the start. We were engaged 6 months from when we met, which my mom wasn't too happy about (thought it was too fast). We moved on from there, however, because she made my FI and I move the date of our wedding from May to November. That was a problem, but we got over it and have been planning for Novemeber with much excitement. We've been doing counseling with the church we're getting married at, making sure we're not rushing, etc.
Well, my 2 older brothers decided that they need to meet the family of my FI. My FI's brother lives in our area, but the two of them are not really close. So, my brothers found the contact information for my FI's brother - got his address, and phone number. One night (9 p.m. on a weeknight), they went to the address that was listed for my FI's brother, but he wasn't there because it was an old address and he had moved since then and left his old roommate behind. Then they decided to call him twice asking him to hang out with them. Meanwhile, my FI and I had no idea about this until we got an angry call from the brother asking why this happened.
Aside from coming off as completely insane, they (and my mom) think that they did nothing wrong! They don't understand why my FI is upset, as well as myself. The whole fact that my family made us move the wedding back 6 months put a strain on the whole in-law relationship, and now they're just making it worse by bringing in my FI's brother.
Can I just elope? Please?