My fiance and I are having a wedding out of state and my family fully understands why and agrees with it. It is important to me, as well as my parents that we do a reception so that my father and I can still have our dance and some of the reception rituals. We have reserved a bar, where the option to drink will be avaliable, and at 9, the bar will open to the public for a show that we booked. What is the best way to word an invite, sharing that we have eloped but would still really like the presence of everyone to share our excitement? and do I need to let them know that at 9:00 a live rock band will take stage and the bar will be open to all patrons, not just family and close friends?