I'm writing this partially because I need to vent and partially because I need advice. I'm just feeling really really overwhelmed right now with all the details. Particularly concerning out of town guests. I have a quite a few people coming in from out of town. My fiance, his family, several members of the WP, one of the GM's girlfriend, and some other friends.
My family has a tiny house where there really honestly is no room to put anybody up, most of my friends aren't able to have anybody stay with them, and most of my relatives are already hosting other family members coming in from out of town. I don't know what to offer people as far as lodging.
I really want to be a good hostess and make sure that everybody has a place to stay, a place to eat and stuff to do. But I am planning my own wedding totally by myself and I really don't know what all I can do at the same time! I don't want to be so stressed out trying to be the bride, the wedding planner, and hostess to everybody and their girlfriend that I can't enjoy my own wedding!
So give me advice. How much is it my responsibility to make sure everybody is taken care of and how much is it their responsibility to make their own arrangements and plans? What should I do?