I have two maids of honor and a close girlfriend who will be our officiant. They are in the process of planning my bachelorette party right now and it is really stressing me out! One of MOH's lives in Idaho and she wants to basically plan it herself but wants opinions from the other girls and myself on what to do and where to stay (the other MOH seems to fine with this). My officiant is used to planning events and also has a VERY strong personality and opinion about what to do. Both of them are calling me to complain about the other. In the mean time the planning that is going on is a bit overwhelming. I constantly get e-mails asking if this or that is ok, or to double check if an e-mail or an invite sounds right.
I feel completely overwhelmed and am resisting the urge to write them all an email saying, "thanks but no thanks". I find that I'm less stressed planning the wedding than I am this bachelorette party.
I've told them, that I trust their opinions and that I'm sure it will be a fun night no matter what, but would it be rude to request that I be left out of the planning process from now on?
Anyone else in the same boat? Any advice?