your future in-law's are telling EVERYONE about your wedding? We decided on a DW because we wanted something small and intimate with our CLOSEST family and friends, not the cousins that you haven't seen in 5 years or friends of the family that live in wherever that you see every-so-often. It's making me feel like I have to invite them yet don't know them that well, not to mention it's increasing the guest list to waaaay past what I had envisioned. To top the day off, I just got an email from my planner and what was supposed to be a $2,000 ceremony has now magically made it's way up to $3,900???!!! Oh my....