We are considering getting married in Hawaii. So I am trying to figure out what Island and what resort or to go with something like White Orchid Weddings and do a private Estate. I have been on Oahu and that was fine. My Fiance has to been to all the Islands and has no opinion. I know he is a real big help, ahahah:) So I was thinking either the Big Island or Maui. I am finding that the Four Seasons Maui is not flexible with packages at all. The Four Seasons on the Big Island is flexible but more expensive over all. The Ritz on Maui is very flexible as well. But am I shooting high with going with such high end places. Is there better for less? Maybe Oahu might be the best. I am confused. We are having like 40 people. Two of which I am footing the bill to come. So i am looking for a wedding site with rentals near it as well. Alright any help would be wonderful!!!