My future mother in law is adamant on adding my fiance's deceased father to our wedding invitations. She is not hosting our wedding, neither are my parents.
My mother has remarried and she would also like to add her and her husband's name to the wedding invitation.
I would rather just write together with our families or something similar to that, but I don't want to have them angry with me. I know my mother will understand. But the future mother in law is stating this is tradition and it will upset her family and friends if we do not add the deceased name. I have never met his father.
What should I do?
If I do give in, how should the invitation be worded?