Yep, crazy must be genetic.
It was bugging me after work, so I called her to reconcile and mend things. Well I tried. I tried asking her is this a good time, if not call me later.. what's wrong... how are you. I got nothing but condescending tones. (Example: Her saying to me "your young, immature, and childish. You better listen to me!) WTF. Sigh. Can I elope. Oh wait.. it gets better.
She is pissed because her 14 yr old son isn't a groomsman and that I should convince Greg to make him one. She is pissed that she has to spend all this money to fly out, rent a hotel, rent a suit/tux for her teenager just for him to be an usher? Scuse me... but last I checked FIs get to decide their party, not manipulative Aunties. Scuse me... you don't have to come at all if you can't afford it.
The best part? Auntie saying "well your mom said that if I don't make up my mind by July that you will give our seats away to Greg's family" WTF!!! Either my mom turned me into a bridezilla or my aunt made that up. Either way, it's not true. And when I tried to tell her it wasn't true, she called me childish and wouldn't let me finish a sentence.
Scuse me.... she is the one who has told me every year that I have to involve her children in the wedding or else. I'm trying to involve them, but it's not my fault that her kids were getting older when I met Greg!
She is upset with me for other things because I came across as brash in my long email... yet she still won't tell me what upsets her so.
Even though she denied it when I asked her if she was upset that I called her children/minors/underage people "kids" she called me petty. WTFBBQ?
YA KNOW WHAT... Not a fck was given after she hung up on me.
At this point, I don't even care if she comes. Probly better she doesn't make a scene, like she did at my high school graduation, causing my parents to miss me walking across the plank.
GAH.
Thank God Greg's mom is sane.
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