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Invite question/dilema

aaearlsaaearls
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in Maryland-Baltimore
So on my FI's side his uncle X and aunt Y are going through some problems. They are legally seperated and living apart. We were going to invite aunt Y's parents becuase they are close with all of FI's family. Uncle X and Aunt Y's son and gf were also going to be invited. Everyone received a STD, which was way prior to all of the problems. I know we are sending Uncle X his own invite. My question is do we send Aunt Y an invitation even though I don't know her new address? Also do I send Uncle X and Aunt Y's son/gf an invite because apparently he moved with Aunt Y? Do we send Aunt Y's parents an invite, because we sent them STD? I feel like if you send someone a STD, you need to send them an invite. Sorry if this is confusing. I know what I think but I wanted to ask some one else for their opinion. If you don't understand something let me know. Again, sorry if it's confusing. TIA!
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Re: Invite question/dilema

  • smange10.10smange10.10
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    edited December 2011
    I think I followed everything.  For one, if everyone received a STD, then they should receive an invitation as well.Does FI's family still talk to Aunt Y and her parents?  If so, then I would try my hardest to find Aunt Y's address in order to send her her own invitation.  And that is same with the son/gf and Aunt Y's parents.HTH
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  • aaearlsaaearls
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    edited December 2011
    That's the thing, Aunt Y seems to want nothing to do with FI's family and I haven't a clue about her parents. I was thinking everyone should get an invite and let them be adults and put their differences to the side, and decide for themselves if they want to go or not. They have done it before, what's another day? But then again, who knows.
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  • SarahKate31SarahKate31
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    edited December 2011
    I am assuming that whatever drama went down had nothing to do specifically with you and FI? In that case, since they all got STDs (ha that still sounds funny) they should all get invitations. If aunt Y, son, g/f, parents don't want to come to your wedding because they don't want anything to do with FI's family, that is their choice. It sounds like it has nothing to do with you and FI, and you may actually exacerbate the situation by not sending an invite when they already got an STD. JMO.
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  • aaearlsaaearls
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    edited December 2011
    SarahKate - correct everything has nothing to do with FI and I. Yes, I also agree that not sending an invite, because they all got STD's, would make the situation even worse.
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  • smange10.10smange10.10
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    edited December 2011
    So, we all agree - Aunt Y, son/gf and Aunt Y's parents are all getting invitations? <I feel like we should all put our hands in and say a cheer>  ...it's been a really long day so far, and it's only 1:57
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  • vjcjenn1vjcjenn1 member
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    edited December 2011
    yes invite everyone...but uncle x and aunt y do NOT get dates
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