let me just lay out the facts and then I'll get to my venting...1. My mom and stepdad, my FI and myself are paying for our wedding.2. We have the date, time, and venues all set in stone, contracts sign, blah blah blah...3. My parents have given us a budget and my FI and I are matching that, so we should be fine...because I want simple and we'll most likely have money left over from our budget.With that said, i'm pretty upset that my FIL aren't offering to help. We've tried to talk about the RD with them and they just keep changing the subject. They still havent congratualted us yet and all they want to talk about is my FSIL and her boyfriend, who have been together for 4 years and arent engaged, havent even talked about it. My FIL treat her BF like he is their son not my FI. It is really frustrating to me that they can just push aside their own blood for lake of better words "the son they never had".Let me make myself clear I'm not mad that they aren't shelling out any money, but I am mad that they come up with rude comments to say about my family, me, or my families money, or anything about our wedding when they arent doing a darn thing to help out.UGH!!!!!