i just found out today from my fi that his parents, who live in virginia, are planning to add about 30 more people to our guest list!They want to invite their co-workers and people that have had them to their children's weddings. they said they would give us money to pay for the extra people, but i'm feeling alittle overwhelmed. i think its alittle rude to invite these people who do not know either me or the groom to our wedding. i understand that they are exited about the wedding and want to share it with their friends/co workers, but i'm not sure how i feel about having all these absolute strangers at the biggest day of my life. am i being selfish? i couldn't sleep at all tonight worring about this-and the extra cost is going to be an issue too. well, let me know if i'm being over sensitive and should just let it go..... or not.