I know this question is going to come up with our families, because ours is the first time our aunts are going to be throwing showers --- so my question is, when are they typically held in relation to the wedding? Our wedding is the end of May next year, and I don't want to have the shower a month before (that's too close and I think people would be on overload). We're not in school or anything so have no conflicting events....I just don't know the "typical" timing. Thanks ladies!