So i thought i could solve my issue with the current catering/venue place that my future inlaws have had so much disagreement about the past few days, by basically forgetting about it and looking for some other places. After spending hours on hours looking and searching for venues themselves that meet my criteria; i decide why not have the wedding at the beach! would be great...that is a whole area that we have to checked out and i am sure guests would rather spend a weekend at the beach than mebane or youngsville...the other places that i was considering. My fabulous idea....rent a huge house....set up a tent beside it and be done with it. My FI and I were excited coming up with great ideas and feeling much more confident about our wedding happening. I have been emailing ideas to my FI and his mom all day when she replies saying that a wedding at the beach will be too far for people to attend. OH NO SHE DIDNT....after i was in tears this morning over this...finally find something to get happy about she has to go sabotage it. is it REALLY too much to ask for people to commute to the beach for the weekend??? they live in charlotte; we live in raleigh, my parents and most of my family live in winston salem. they act like i want them to drive to Miami or something. this is me and my FI's wedding and we are going to have it where we want it. that is the end of it. wilmington is not that far away...deal with it. We just flew to chicago for one of his friends weddings...we have drove to charlotte twice for two others. is it so much to ask??? ughhhhh i could just scream so glad its nearly 5 on friday!!!! woooohooooo