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Goodbye for now.... (Sad)

This is hard to say.My little sister passed away this past weekend; she was 19. Her funeral is in Linden tomorrow.Not sure how I am functioning enough to put this into words, just wanted to update everyone on why I disappeared.Our wedding is less than 3 months and I cannot imagine doing the whole big thing without my sister, MOH & BFF.We think we will be not having a reception. Ceremony is for sure still on; marrying Eric is a very happy thing that I need right now. Perhaps take the BP & parents out to a very nice dinner.I don't know. This is all still very fresh and once tomorrow is over and life somewhat gets back to normal I may feel differently. I cannot honestly imagine that though.Eric is amazing and on board with whatever I need to do.Not sure if I'll still lurk once I go back to work next week or not. I am pretty zombified right now.Thank you to everyone who made planning a dream wedding so much fun.Love you all.
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  • edited December 2011
    Amanda, I am so sorry to hear of your loss! :(  I will keep you and your family in my prayers tonight.  *Hugs*
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry to hear this. :( I can't imagine losing a sibling. My prayers go out to you and your family!
  • edited December 2011
    I truly don't know what to say.. I am so very sorry for your loss.In time I am sure you will move on with life one day at a time with the memory of your sister always with you.My prayers are with you.  Please let us know how you're doing.
  • edited December 2011
    I just realized that I saw your sister's obit earlier today.  I was on mlive.com (Flint Journal) looking for someone else's obit and saw hers.  I remember thinking how sad it was that someone so young had passed.  Again, I am so sorry for your loss.  She was a beautiful girl inside (I'm sure) and out.
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  • edited December 2011
    There is absolutely no way that I can express how sorry I am for you and your family right now on the internet. ::HUGE internet hug:: I am so sorry, I can't even comprehend how you're feeling but I hope that you have some comfort tomorropw in seeing how loved your sister IS (not was), and I hope you know that she'll still be with you on your wedding day. For sure. Seriously, big huge hugs for you, my thoughts and prayers are totally with you and your family right now!
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  • edited December 2011
    Oh my goodness I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  I can't imagine what you're going through right now.  You are in my thoughts & prayers!
  • edited December 2011
    I am so sorry to hear this! I will definitely keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
  • edited December 2011
    I am so very sorry for your loss -- I can't imagine what you're going through. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts.
  • edited December 2011
    I'm very sorry to hear of your loss; my best to you and your family during this tough time.
  • edited December 2011
    So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
  • edited December 2011
    Oh no..I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. Please know that you can come here anytime for support.
  • edited December 2011
    OMG, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My heart goes out to you & your family, I can't even begin to imagine what you are going thru. I'm so sorry!!   ::hugs::

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  • RachelCheetahRachelCheetah member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh my gosh, I am so sorry for your loss America :(
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    edited December 2011
    I am so sorry for your loss!
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    edited December 2011
    Wow. I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts. Take as much time as you can to heal each other and find peace after such a big loss. Ditto PP, use us if you need to. we love being a good distraction or listeners/readers.
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  • edited December 2011
    Oh Amanda, I'm so sorry for your loss!! :( Your family will definitely be in my prayers during this difficult time. Please remember we'll be here for you if you need anything! .:hugs:.
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  • edited December 2011
    I sm so sorry for your loss!! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! sending *hugs* your way!! please come back and at least let us know how you're doing a lil later on!! Take care sweetie!
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  • edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.  Please take some time to yourself and remember that things happen for a reason.  We'll all be thinking of you and you and your family will be in our thoughts.
  • richersrichers member
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    edited December 2011
    My Heart literally just dropped! I can't imagine losing my younger sister, I'd be devastated to say the least. You and your family are in my thoughts. Be strong!
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    edited December 2011
    oh honey... I am sooooo sorry. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. I seriously just got teary eyed sitting at work and how horrible this is! I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts, and I hope that you and your family get through this together. Just remember to allow yourself to feel all the grief and to have time to appreciate the memories you will always have with your sister. I wish you the very best in this horrible time. Hang in there!
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  • edited December 2011
    I am very sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts. Like pp said, you can always come back here if you need distractions :)
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    edited December 2011
    ::hugs::I hope you are doing well as well as your family. I'm sorry for your loss.
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    edited December 2011
    Oh my gosh, I am so sorry.
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    edited December 2011
    I am so sorry for your loss! Stay strong and may you find strength in each other during this difficult time.  I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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    Oh my gosh, words cannot express how sorry I am to hear this tragic news.  May you and your family find comfort and peace at this extremely difficult time.  We're here if you ever need shoulders to cry on.  Hugs and prayers to you and your family.
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    I am so sorry to hear this. My heart aches for you - please know we will be thinking about you and your family during this is difficult time.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss, our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.
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    edited December 2011
    Oh my gosh, I am so, so sorry to hear about your loss.  I will be keeping you and my family in my prayers.  I wish you the best of luck in getting through this. 
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  • sarah1017sarah1017 member
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    edited December 2011
    I can't even tell you how sorry I am for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. As others have said, please let us know if there is anything, anything at all, we can do.

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    I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your entire family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you the best in this incredibly difficult time.
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