I'm a little stressed about my bachelorette party and here's why: I really don't want to invite my FSIL, but I am planning inviting FBIL's wife and other FBIL's girlfriend. I like the wife and girlfriend of FBILs; we talk and email each other all the time; I consider them my friends.
The first reason I don't want to invite FSIL is that I just really don't like her. She doesn't say more than two words to me when we see each other; I've tried to force conversation but she's not having it. She's rude to my FI all the time, has been her entire life. When my FI is upset with his sister he'll say stuff like "she's lucky she's even invited to the wedding." Total family drama. The other reason is I know there is no way she can afford to go to Vegas with me and my girlfriends. Plus, she has major back problems, even though she's younger than me, which would prevent her from partying it up all weekend.
I'm just wondering if I should extend a courtesy invite and hope she won't come or just not invite her at all.
I'm leaning towards just not saying anything about it to his side of the family. I doubt his sister will care either way but FMIL will probably throw a huge hissy fit about me not including FSIL...UGH!