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What do you think??

festivegal2008festivegal2008
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Back in July I received an invitation to a shower that I was unable to attend.  Instead of calling to RSVP I mailed a card to the honoree's house, explaining why I couldn't attend and included a gift card for one of her registered stores.  I didn't receive a thank you right away, then even after the shower had long passed I still never received a thank you.  Should I call or text her and ask if she ever received it?  Or should I let it go?  If anything I just hope she received it...
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Re: What do you think??

  • jujubee455jujubee455 member
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    edited December 2011
    I would make sure she received it... give her a little kick in the arse to send that thank you.
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    edited December 2011
    I would call to make sure she received it
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  • boogerbearoriginalboogerbearoriginal member
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    edited December 2011
    You should call to ensure she received the card but don't mention the thank you note. When was the shower?
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  • brusz1lmbrusz1lm
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    edited December 2011
    I would call to make sure she received it--maybe she's waiting until the shower to open anything that arrived at the house?I would definitely follow up; things do get lost in the mail!
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  • festivegal2008festivegal2008
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    edited December 2011
    The shower was about 3 weeks ago.  I'm assuming she's already gotten her thank yous out from that.  I will get in touch with her today.
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  • boogerbearoriginalboogerbearoriginal member
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    edited December 2011
    If its been 3 weeks than thank you's should've been sent. I would just make sure your card made it to her but I wouldn't mention the thank you note.
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  • ksunquestksunquest member
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    edited December 2011
    I would call to make sure she received the card, but don't mention a thank you. I didn't have mine out three weeks after - It took me about a month, I think.
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  • RachelCheetahRachelCheetah member
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    edited December 2011
    Ditto Katie. It could have gotten lost in the mail - she should have sent a TY after getting the card regardless of the shower date since you weren't attending it, IMHO, but not everyone is as perfect and polite as us Knotties.    
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  • festivegal2008festivegal2008
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    edited December 2011
    I'm hoping it didn't get lost, but my thing is, if she hadn't received it, wouldn't she have called me for my RSVP for the shower?  I told her in the card I couldn't go and why. I'll call her tonight.
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