I'm catholic and therefore my parents (who are paying for the wedding) want me to get married with a full mass catholic ceremony. I have not attended church regularly in about 5 years. I am nervous to call my parish preist about our engagement and our wedding. To make matters worse, we are living in CA and planning to have a wedding in PA. Any ideas on how to deal with my preist/ my nerves? My fiance keeps pressuring me to call him, but he is not catholic and I don't think he can understand how I feel.