Hello everyone,I am a new poster, but I've been browsing the board for a while. I've decided to subject myself to your honest (sometimes painfully so!) opinions.My boyfriend and I are coming up on our three year anniversary in October. I am 26 and he is 35. We have talked openly about marriage from the very beginning and speak often of "when we get married," "when we have children," etc. Recently, when I suggested we think more seriously about getting engaged soon, he said he doesn't think three years together is long enough before getting engaged and that he's "too young."While I don't think three years is a terribly long time in the grand scheme of things, I do think that by 35 he should be more ready to make the leap. The whole exchanged bothered me more than I expected. I do think a proposal will come eventually, but feel hurt that he acted surprised that I thought three years a fair amount of time, especially at his age. I think maybe I just need some of you to bring me back to earth. We have a happy, steady relationship and I will wait until he's ready. But tell me honestly, is it unreasonable to feel this way?