We are getting married out of state in my hometown. I've heard that a lot of people will buy a wedding gift and mail it to you once they receive your wedding invitation, as opposed to bringing a gift to the wedding. We would like any mailed gifts to be sent to my parents' house where the wedding is taking place because 1) we aren't home during the day to sign for/receive any packages (any left outside our apartment will likely get stolen) and 2) we don't really have room for the gifts in our small apartment and we plan on moving soon. What is the best way to let guests know that any gifts they would like to mail should be sent to my parents' house? Is the return address on the wedding invitation the same address people typically mail gifts to? Or should we not say anything at the risk of sounding gift-grabby? TIA!