I think that post was here, if not, let me know, I'll delete and put it in the right spot.OP-many mothers could have benefited from reading the thoughtful and truthful responses to your post. Brides could have gotten good advice too, especially if their parents are pressuring them to get married in a certain church or faith (like my parents were). If you only want validation, you need to seek it somewhere else. This post could have helped a lot of people and it is rude to delete it after the posters took time to answer your question.But, I'll sum up for anyone that was interested. You don't have the right to choose where your daughter and her FI get married.