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2 Quick Question for everyone.

Did you send out Rehearsal Dinner invites?  I have been reading that you should and i am torn between whether or not i should.  Also we received a check as a wedding gift in the mail and our wedding it 2 month away.  I have already sent out the Thank you note, should i deposit the check right away or should i wait?Any help would be appreciated. Thanks

Re: 2 Quick Question for everyone.

  • eclipsethecateclipsethecat member
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    edited December 2011
    We did so it would be clear who was invited- we didnt have enough funds to pay for SO or dates so it was just the bridal party. HTH
  • edited December 2011
    we sent out invites...i got them on vistaprint for free and just paid shipping! I loved them!
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  • eclipsethecateclipsethecat member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh and about the check- yes deposit it since you sent the thank you note out. I hate when people hold onto checks I give them.
  • edited December 2011
    i sent a sheet of info to the bridal party that included for guys = when to pick up tux,etc and for girls - info about hair/makeup if they wanted or mani pedis etc...basically a wedding info sheet for all the info you need to tell them but keep forgetting or send in 15 different emails.  i included the rehearsal dinner info on there
  • moeoscarmoeoscar member
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    edited December 2011
    I did something similar to sbowersox. We created a flyer that we mailed to everyone in the bridal party explaining all of the dates and times and important information needed for all of the wedding related events. It worked out nicely b/c we didn't have to answer the same questions over and over.I don't think it's necessary to send invites unless you are inviting an extensive list of people.Yes, cash the check. Once you send out the thank you note I think you should cash it. I agree with eclipse, I hate when people hang onto checks forever!
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  • tnspighttnspight member
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    edited December 2011
    I plan on sending Rd invites.  I haven't decided whether they'll be paper or evites.  I rcv'd an evite for my gfriend's wedding.  I do like the idea of the flyer though.Yes, you should cash the check.  If you hold onto it, they may spend the money on something else thinking that they have the available funds. 
  • edited December 2011
    I'm getting married the same day as you and I would cash the check if the thank you was already in the mail. I'm sending out rehearsal dinner invites, I think it will only be maybe 15 invites if that so that's the only reason.
  • edited December 2011
    I heard the same thing.  I'm going to send something via evite, so it's not going to be anything real formal. 
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  • edited December 2011
    Yes, we are sending out RD invites to clarify who is invited. Also, I would deposit the check. I hate it when people hold onto checks, and if you don't they might worry that you did not receive it!
  • jessimaphonejessimaphone member
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    edited December 2011
    We're going to just send Evites for the RD, but we are going to send them so that people know who is coming and where to be and when.I would deposit the check because people are waiting for those things to clear to balance their accounts - it's good that you sent the Thank You right away!
  • jesecca25jesecca25 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks everyone for your help!  I am going to deposit the check.. I like the idea of e-vites for the RD, i think it would make it easier on everyone.  
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