Catholic Weddings

Who Escorts MOG?

The MOG is recently widowed (two months ago) and will be attending the wedding solo.  She has no brothers.  FI is the only son.  Her husband's side of the family is not invited to the wedding as no one has seen/spoken to them in years.  So, who escorts the MOG down the aisle in the church and at the reception?  His only surviving grandparent is his maternal grandmother, however we don't know if she'll attend - she's 89 and would have to travel 1,000 mi to get here.  The MOG has 4 sisters and is very close to one of them.  Can she escort her down the aisle? Or should her SIL (in BP) or nephew escort her?
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Re: Who Escorts MOG?

  • TruchanaTruchana member
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    edited December 2011
    I would say the groom walks his mom down.  If you don't want that, you have an usher.
  • alliecarrie41alliecarrie41 member
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    edited December 2011
    my MOG's two sons did (my husband and best man)
  • Calypso1977Calypso1977 member
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    edited December 2011
    i would have your FI escort her.  my H escorted my mom who is widowed.
  • edited December 2011
    It would be nice if your FI did it. I'm sorry to hear about your recent loss. I lost my mom close to our wedding, so I can understand the stress. GL
  • edited December 2011
    Our ushers escorted my MIL (divorced and came solo) as well as my mother and the grandparents. 
  • tnspighttnspight member
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    edited December 2011
    My FI is an only child and walking his mom down.  She was widowed six years ago.  I don't see anything wrong w/MOG's sister or nephew walking her down the aisle either.  It's whatever you guys want. 
  • jobiannjobiann member
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    edited December 2011
    My FI is escorting MOG down the isle...he wanted to do it as they are very close and it seems that is fairly common in our area.  But, really you can do whatever you'd like as long as your priest is fine with it.  Sorry to hear about your recent loss.  I'm sure it will be a tough time for your FMIL with her loss, but I hope your wedding will lift her spirits. 
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