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Shower TYs: from both bride & FH or just bride?

I am supposed to write the shower thank yous from both FH & me or just me? I planned on writing something along the lines of "thank you so much for thinking of us...etc." but just signing my name at the bottom. Also, do I have to mention each gift if they gave say 3 things (cheese grater, food warming bowl, chargers)?

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Re: Shower TYs: from both bride & FH or just bride?

  • I signed the shower thank you cards with just my name, but if the gift was something particularly meaningful to my H or something he really liked or was excited to use (like the food processor), then I mentioned his name and how excited he was to use the gift.  Yes you should specifically mention each gift and make a comment about how you plan to use it or how you're looking forward to using it or something along those lines.
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  • I listed each and every single thing they gave us as well as a memory from the shower... like I loved the roses you make for the toilet paper bride, they were beautiful, or the words you came up with for the last game were so dirty but funny. That way they were extrememly personalized. Seriously, how many ways can you say, thank you for the ___ and for comming to the shower!? Got to mix it up. Those cards seem small but takes a bit to fill them up.
  • I signed the cards with both mine and my fiances name. He attended the shower and was just as thankful for the gifts as I was. List out each item if possible, and mention how you will use it to make it more personal.
  • I signed them from just me, but I mentioned my H's name in the body of the message.
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