So a good friend of ours eloped a few weeks ago, and is having a party to celebrate. They've stated that the party is to be really casual, no wedding-y stuff, because they are planning to have a reception a year from now (bride will have to go back to her home country and come back next year because of visa stuff). Do we take a gift? I can't imagine what we'd get them since they will be living separately for a year. Do we just wait until the reception?