Despite the fact that we've been living together for 2 years, my fiance and I twill be staying in two different locations the night before our wedding. We thought it would be romantic for him to see me for the first time that day walking down the aisle in the white dress. The both of us want that moment to be really special
The other day, however, I was talking to our church wedding coordinator and she asked if my fiance and I would be seeing each other prior to the wedding ceremony. I told her we weren't planning on it and she seemed a little disgruntled. She explained that the church would prefer that the bride and groom meet prior to the ceremony in order to greet guests while they're arriving. She said that the church "discourages pagan traditions such as having the bride hidden away from the groom before the ceremony".
I'm not sure I understand. I thought it would be acceptable for us to see each other for the first time while I walk down the aisle towards him. Did anyone else receive such advice from their church?