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do i need to designate an moh?

saraphaeriesaraphaerie member
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here's my question: do i need to designate an moh? i don't feel that out of my bms i'd consider any as my closest friend. they're women who i've been very close with at certain times of my life, but who i don't live near now. the one who is local is a very good friend, a friend of the heart, but i also wouldn't say she's my "best" friend. if i choose her it's for the convenience of having someone who lives locally--and in reality i have a much longer history with the others in the group.  thoughts?
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  • bablingbrookebablingbrooke member
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    Not at all! It sounds like the best situation since you're equally close with everybody. One girl can give a toast, one can sign the license, one can hold your flowers during the ceremony, etc. Way to go with choosing substance over form :)
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  • Leah&Christian09Leah&Christian09 member
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    No reason at all to choose one.  Just alternate the "jobs".  Have one stand next to you, one hold your bouquet, one sign the license.  It's perfectly ok to say "I love you all too much to choose just one of you."
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  • carrieoz_76carrieoz_76 member
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    I'll have three BMs, no MOH. One local, two long-distance. The local one offered to help with the shower/bparty. We're all friends and have been forever, so I'm not worried about how things will work out. You may just want to talk openly with them about why you're not picking a MOH, put them in touch with each other, and encourage them to talk to you if they have any questions. It's touchy to try to divvy up BM duties because most ppl will tell you there aren't any other than buying the dress and standing next to you. But if they ask about them, you should be prepared to talk about who'll do what.
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