I just need to rant and I wonder if this is happening to anybody else . . . the response date for the RSVPs was last Friday (August 21) - I have so many people now that have not sent them back - including my MOH! Seriously? It's an addressed, stamped envelope - how hard is it to put it in the mailbox????Now I have to call people and I just feel like I'm being annoying, but I need to know for seating arrangements. I had been calm through this whole wedding stuff, now it's 4 weeks away and I'm getting so stressed out about so much of this stuff. If it was just one or two people, I'd think maybe the envelopes got lost in the mail . . . but I know that didn't happen for all these people.