So i was thinking of sending out announcements to those that we did not invite to our wedding (b/c we had to keep the guest list small). They'd be going to extended family (like my great-aunts), not-so-close friends, and people like old professors and old colleagues, etc.does this just look like i am trying to get gifts from these people? my mom thinks so...i was under the impression that sending out announcements was just that....telling people you're married. not trying to be gift grabby. if i got one in the mail, i'd send a card but certainly not a gift! maybe i just don't get it though lol