in light of the post below about a lost check.... several of our bridal party members did not give gifts either... or cards. Screw the gift. I know everyone is pressed for money and most of us are in grad school or just graduated but a damn card and 20 dollar registry gift would have been perfectly fine. I MADE SURE my girls had no expenses other than dresses too, and I offered to order all of them from RK to save about 50 bucks but 3 insisted on ordering from the place I got my dress.... for $200 bucks instead of $152 at RK Bridal, and of course those are the 3 with no gift, no card. All I want is a card, some acknowledgement and momento. My MOH is in med school and lives off of what she has/her mother is able to provide, she got us a gorgeous calla lily vase from crate and barrel and it was not expensive, another BM got us a small gift and really really nice card- people are inconsiderate. What do I give these people when they get married? Nothing?