Okay, FI FINALLY made a decision on his side of the WP! Thing is, in our discussion we couldn't think of another guy we were close enough to to put in the WP. We decided to be non-traditional and go with his female cousin as an "usherette". I know gender roles are being broken all the time these days, so I'm not really concerned with the "tradition" of it. We'll have one female and one male usher.
Just wondering if any of you had any opinions on how to make her stand out as an usher instead of just a greeter. Also, is there a way for her to lead people to their seats without being awkward? We just want people to know she is also an usher without pinning a sign on her that says "I'm an usher too".