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things I hate.

looking at peoples' vacation and/or family pictures. if I wasn't there, or it's not my family, I could give a crap. and even if it is my family, it's a toss-up.now you?
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  • I hate headaches that appear for no reason, and stay no matter what you do.  I hate money.
  • I hate how the girls at my work look down on me because I don't wear Prada shoes.  Guess what skanks, we are TEACHERS.  If I wanna wear flip-flops and be comfy..let me and don't hate.
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  • Being unemployed.  And people who give crappy unsolicited and unhelpful job search advice.Also, grown women in pigtails.  And Lowe's.
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  • grammar mistakes. white chocolate. the 80s. miley cyrus.
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  • People who think one speech from our President will brainwash your child and make him/her an instant socialist. STFU you Fing MORON. If it does, then you FAIL as a parent. Satan himself could give a speech to either of my kids and it wouldn't affect them one bit. Especially one that simply says "stay in school." Whew. That felt good.
  • Oh, and the feeling I get when I remember that FI and I get our bar results tomorrow at 5.
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  • People who have no control over their children! Its called discipline you damn pushover!
  • Right now, I hate looking for wedding shoes.  I normally don't give two shiits about shoes, why in the name of Jeebus would I entertain even for a moment spending $100 on shoes for one bloody day?I also hate the pile of laundry that I should be working on right now.
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    Sometimes I feel like people think that brides are delicate little flower princesses who get all dressed up and pretty for one special moment of their dreams, when really they're just normal people who just happen to be getting married. Things shouldn't have to be sugar-coated for grown-ass women. -mstar284
  • -stupid girls on FB who have an album of 117 pictures titled: Me.-people who have 4 kids, live in a trailer, but drive a Lexus.-my next door neighbor-people who have changed their profile picture to Michael Jackson-Michael Vick-the Dutch
  • And people who give crappy unsolicited and unhelpful job search advice.Definitely this. 
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  • Hahah cew -  I hate the girls on my friends list who have spring, summer, fall, winter photo albums for every year spanning back as long as theyve had fb. I swear atleast 75% of the pictures all look the same, theyre just wearing different clothes in them.
  • People who think one speech from our President will brainwash your child and make him/her an instant socialist. I work with a guy who feels this way. He's taking the day off and keeping his son out of school for the day. He's one of my favorite people, but the fact that he's doing this makes me think he's crazy.
  • Nebb- I've got one idiot who has like 60 self portraits that she took of herself in her car. Half of them are kissy face pictures which are the most offensive of all. She's also got one where she is standing naked in a thong and showing off her muscles. I'm considering burning her house down.
  • Presently, I really hate the mess that FMIL has created with our guests list. It really really irks me. I'm trying to get over it, but I feel like I need to scream. I also hate how everything is still a Michael Jackson tribute. Have we all forgotten that he was accused of molesting children? Anyone else would have been shunned by society (I think this is one of those crimes where "inncent until proven guilty" doesn't work so well in theory), and here everyone is playing his songs endlessly.
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  • - children/teens who curse at/infront of their parents - pasta sauce from the jar - dirty sneakers - people who pull out infront of you doing 8 million mph then slow down to 25 - FI's father who has no concept of responsibility and overdraws his bank account multiple times resulting in the overdraft fees being taken out of our account and then asks for money to borrow (fi is his payee, so accounts are linked)- obsessive and controlling girlfriends
  • I'm kinda hating fi right now. He's always been terrible at spelling and when we were putting together the guest list, I repeatedly asked him questions about how to spell so-and-so's names etc. I already questioned his family regarding how to spell an aunt's name, his step-sister's name, I got all of the addresses from his mom's side of the family from his mom, his friends that got Save the Dates only got them because I called or texted them asking for their addresses, etc. I've done a lot of it. The least he can do is take two seconds to figure out how to spell a few of his own family members' names. Well, we got an invite to his cousin's wedding, and it turns out that I spelled his uncle's name wrong on the Save the Date I sent them. Ok fine. Turned out he had spelled his friends' last name wrong as well - I figured it out when I saw the guy's fire gear (which fi sees once a month). Ok fine, I never had their address so they hadn't gotten a Save the Date - crisis averted. Then, we got a gift in the mail from another one of his cousin's who is unable to attend my shower... well wouldn't ya know it, she always goes by Carrie, it turns out her real frickin' name is Caroline. Fi had no.clue. that her real name was not Carrie. None whatsoever. How do you not know your close cousin who you always see's name?Focus, fi! It's clear that I'm the one sending these Save the Dates and invites so please stop making me look like a dolt because no one's name is right!
  • I'm actually also kind of hating DH at the moment.  He has always been the frugal one in our relationship.  Now that we're buying a house, all of a sudden he's all "ooh pretty paint! new couch! DVR!" and has suddenly forgotten that we still need to finish paying rent and I'm not even entirely convinced we have enough money to cover all of the last minute things that go along with buying a house. It's genuinely concerning me because this is not the DH that I know. I may be a worry wart about this, but it's weird that he just assumes everything will be fine even after looking at the obsessively detailed budget I set for us for the next few months.  It's like he sees different numbers than I do.
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  • I hate that my ankle hurts really bad for no reason. I hate that I'm going to spend my day off doing laundry. I hate people who won't get out of the fast lane to let me pass, and when driving in the right lane go really fast, but when in the fast lane they won't go faster than the speed limit.
  • I hate: people asking when we're going to "get on" that whole having kids thing FMIL suggesting "cute ideas" that I think are dreadful and then getting huffy because I don't think they're great. (laminating monogrammed wedding napkins to use as coasters) FMIL picking out her dress for the wedding and me not being able to figure out a tactful way to tell her it's a horrible dress for a 65 year old to wear in December. how FI refuses to take a benadryl before he does yard work.  He's currently standin gin the shower sneezing from all the allergens.
  • having to decide what to eat at every.single.meal. Just once, I don't want to make the decision. My upstairs neighbors. They smoke on their patio every 7 minutes, and the door sliding open and closed sounds like the building is coming down. People who are not clear, then get irritated you didn't read their mind. vacuuming. It makes me sweat.
  • My living situation/ FBIL (at the moment.) Why I let FI convince me that we should move into an apartment with his brothers is beyond me. How much longer until May???
  • twitter updates, like cew515 -stupid girls on FB who have an album of 117 pictures titled: Me, and the paper I should be writing.
  • I hate Bec being so down on her wedding.  I saw her invites.  If her wedding is even 1% as cute, it'll be wonderful.
  • I wouldn't hate it if it was the wedding I wanted. I wanted 75-100 people getting together for a picnic in the grass on a pretty October afternoon. I have 180 people invited to a fuckingcircus. I didn't even invite family members, but somehow FI's parents invited their fuckingpainter. Their PAINTER?!?! Are you fuckingkidding me?!? So, yeah. I hate my wedding. I just want this wholefuckingthing over.
  • FSIL.  She changed her myspace status to bisexual, forgot that half the family is friends with her, realized it a month later and changed it back.  Now it's ALLLLLLL my fault the family knows she's dating a chick. Seriously?  You posted it on the INTERNET!  And I didn't discuss it with any of them unless they brought it up, because it's none of my dang business.  Also, you know this is another cry for attention and you'll go back to being straight the second your gf realizes your BSC.
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  • I hate being a senior in college and having my teachers assign and check! homework. If I want to crash and burn, let me. Unlike 90% of those kids in there, I have to work 2 jobs to pay my bills and for my damned schooling.I also hate how FI tells me to stop stressing but does absolutely nothing to help ease the stress, like, oh, i dont know... Figuring out a guest list for his side of the family. It's a destination wedding, save the dates are going out this week. hello?
  • I hate wheln people ask my advice then argue with me about what I told them..... well then why did you ask in the first place. -exaggerating!!! -job searching -grocery shopping -people who don't have kids telling me how to parent mine!!
  • bec- I'm with you on the whole Obama thing...he's the president, there should be enough respect for the office that it's okay to listen to a speech about staying in school (George W. Bush was in a school the day of 9/11--I mean, seriously) I'm currently not so much liking the less than three weeks until the wedding mark.  I feel like I might lose my mind...not necessarily from the wedding alone, but from trying to keep my head above water teaching (and grading papers), trying to clean and re-clean this house everyday, since FI's family is staying in it for the wedding, and then there's the wedding stuff.  Everyone promises help, but really not many people deliver.  I know that my wedding isn't as important to anyone else as it is to me, but don't act like you're going to do something and then drop the ball...Yeah, I'm ready to just be married already.
  • cew- I have an album like that...its from when I was a freshman in college and signed up for facebook. Its waaay back in my albums but everytime I see it I get embarrassed.I hate pageant moms on toddlers and tiaras. I just saw a 3 day old baby, sick. I hate buses when I'm driving. And hair
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