I need to purchase some shoes for a beach wedding next month. Flip flops just aren't quite what I want - not sure what would be the best option? My dress is a ocean blue tea lengh. I found the cutest silver shoes and got them but now realize they won't work on the beach -- but will for the reception. What is the best type of heel to where - wedge? Need your advise!! One more thing -- I'm not a sun worshiper so I'm pretty pale. Several people have mentioned the self-tanning cremes. Has anyone had success with those? Thanks!