Just trying to get an idea if you ladies are paying for the excursions for your guests? We'd love to treat our guests to something while in Scottsdale (horseback riding tour; and ATV rides) but with the costs for the reception and rehersal dinner just don't know if we can cover it. Will it be wrong to plan an event and just give my guests the option to participate if they choose and if they don't they can just do whatever on their own??