I am wondering if any of you ladies bought things for your wedding that after the fact, you wondered if it was worth the cost, and maybe should have spent the extra money on something else. i have heard stories of people making out-of-town bags and having the hotel not even distribute them, or wedding planners taking excess liquor. i have heard of DOC's not even doing their job right, digital photobooths malfunctioning, and candy buffets being ignored or barely used.I am not trying to be overly cheap but I know there seem to be an influx of "add-ons" marketed to us brides and I want help sifting through the nicer things to splurge on and the silly fads that aren't really worth it.