Hey I am just catching up on theboard news and I am sorry to hear about the mess thats happened. I wanted to toss out another suggestion. My husband and I have a farm that we frequent very often in North Andover it's a place we got our pictures taken at and if they were offering wedding packages we would have taken it.
http://www.smolakfarms.com/events-weddings.htmlSeeingyour wedding is in October this might be awesome for you. Again I'm sorry!!! Hope it all works out. Amye