i've thought about this for sometime now.. but haven't really figured out exactly how i'm gonna pull it off without hurting my dad's feelings... My dad and I ( in my opinion ) just don't have the kind of "traditional" relationship... i know he might want it that way but fact of the matter is it just isn't. I am the oldest an will probably be the first to actually get married. My younger sister has been engaged, not engaged, single, engaged again for the past couple of years... so the option of me being like "Oh, He'll get the walk down the isle and fatehr daughter dance with her" is pretty much a NO!So i kinda feel a bit stuck... i don't want to hurt his feelings, though I know he would say i'm not and he just wants me to be happy and say i don't really want those kinds of things at my wedding. The relationship my fiance has with his mother is VERY traditional. He is her first born son and she loves the hell out of him... and would be HEARTBROKEN not to have the mother son dance kind of thing... so i'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. Doesn't seem right to have one but not the other... One other option is.. the dances wouldn't be the "slow, sappy" dance... thinking of being crazy. Jim ( fiance) is thinking about doing Footloose with His mom... and that might work out a bit better for me where my dad is concerned... main point is.. our wedding is going to be VERRRRRY NON-traditional... but i don't want to hurt feelings by skipping or omiting certain things. any ideas would be awesome!