Hello All, We're 5 weeks away, and getting down to the nitty gritty of the Mass. We had always intended to recite the Prayer of the Faithful, and mention our deceased by name (grandparents, etc). However, my uncle and aunt tragically died over the weekend and no one saw it coming. Although a small memorial service is planned at some point, we don't know when. The wedding may be the first time that my mom, other uncle, and grandmother all see each other since my aunt and uncle's death. I would like to mention them during the Prayer of the Faithful too, but my mom seemed to have a lot of reservations about that. She thinks my grandmother will throw a fit and need to leave the church when it happens. I know it will be an emotional moment but I would still like to mention them. If we don't mention them, we need to cut that part out entirely. Would any of you consider deferring to my mom and cutting that intention out entirely? Note: Fiance is opposed to changing the format and I would have to convince him too. He's got something at stake here too, having lost two grandparents within the last year and missing them terribly.