Hey! I just wanted to let you know that I did not forget about you and asking the deacon about the unity candle. I didn't get a chance to ask b/c when I spoke w/him he was telling us we may not be able to get married at Sacred Heart!!! FI was adopted by his stepdad and if FI's mother can't produce paperwork (which is a possiblity since she is a ditz and lives on a river that floods twice a year) showing his name change, the diocese may not allow us to marry in the church! Sorry! I'm now done complaining! Once we have this figured out and I talk to the deacon again, I will def ask him about the candle, I promise!