Ok, my parents are paying for a large part of our wedding along with my FI and I. Future MIL has stated that she is not paying for anything, including rehearsal dinner and her dress. Ok, I don't expect anything so whatever, we'll pay for those things ourselves. The problem is my parents more involved than she is and are starting to work on the guest list and invitation wording (my mom is excited and looking ahead). FMIL is PO'ed that she will not be on the invite and has been limited to one table of guests. My dad tried to explain the limited budget, both ours and my parents. FMIL is screaming and crying that all of us are just being mean. Now I feel crappy and don't know what to do. I really can't afford to invite all of her co-workers that she is not really friends with, just wants to show off to, and to top it off some friends of hers that I and my dad do not like (at their own son's wedding these people insulted him and his bride, a toast should not be a roast, IMO. And they have told my dad that he is just lazy because after he got laid off he didn't get a new full time job, he teaches a college now, albeit 3/4 time).Help!