Hi,Since this a board of MOB and MOG I'd like to know if you ladies think weddings are just for and about the bride?I think weddings are about both the bride and the groom and each should have input into the wedding arrangements.Is it just our culture (American) that makes it all about the bride? I will be a MOG one day and I would hope that whoever he decides to marry understands that his wedding day is special and it's as much about his as it is about her. Just curious as to what mothers think.Thanks.