FI is very close with his grandfather, he is thrilled about us getting married and was so excited to be at our wedding. However, he was just diagnosed with terminal cancer and only has 3-6 months to live. I originally planned on doing a candy buffet for my favors but now I am wondering what everyone thinks about a charitable donation in lieu of favors. We would give to the American Cancer Society and put a card at each place setting explaining the gift in FI's grandfather's honor.