My fiance and myself are paying for the wedding ourselves. We may get a little money here and there but we're not expecting much. Needless to say our budget will probably be less than $4000. I have started planning and our wedding party will be very small (probably less than 40). Has anyone had a wedding this small and still had it in a nice place? I don't want to end up in my backyard but after seeing prices of some of these wedding sites and receptions I don't know that I will have any other choice. Help!