hey girls, im new to this board. FI and i were planning a big traditional wedding in NY for may 2010. Over the weekend we decided to ditch those plans and we are going for a destination wedding in jamaica for feb 2010!!! We hadn't really dont that much planning to where it was a big mess or loss of money to drastically change plans like we are doing. However, we just sent out STDs with our may 14 wedding plans. My question is now that we are doing the DW, do we still extend the invitationa to these ppl, knowing that they most likley will not come. We are planning to host an informal reception for spring/ early summer for those who could not make the wedding. We were thinking of sending something when we return from the wedding invtinng ppl to our informal reception. But we would def need to let traveling guests know now that we are not doing the wedding as previously planned in may. So wwyd???? Still send jamaica wedding invites to everyone, or just our close friends and family, since most ppl will not be coming to jamaica?? i should mention that our guest list was about 200...