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katorigasuki · June 2010

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**O-Face** · June 2010

Holy shtballs!

Mrs.Thistletwat · June 2010

I read this earlier. It's a whole mess of WTF. That girl needs to figure out who she is before she tries raising that kid.

TheDuckis · June 2010

And yet I'm sure when she got married she told everyone who commented on her age that they were very mature and knew exactly what they were getting into.

TheDuckis · June 2010

I will say, this is an example of when TIP jumps to quickly onto the divorce train. This girl made a choice to get married, and she has a responsibility to see it through. It doesn't even seem like they've had counseling. To me, "we grew apart" is not a valid reason for divorce.

baconsmom · June 2010

I agree, Duckis. I think they can fix it - especially because there's a child involved now. And even if they can't fix it, if they can be cordial to each other while he's home, it's still better for the kid.

ReturnOfKuus · June 2010

I don't think there's anything to fix here. This is just some dumb teenage romance that got taken too far. Adding an accidental pregnancy to the situation doesn't make it more than that.

TheDuckis · June 2010

But here's the thing. Whether or not it got taken to far, they made the decision to get married. Marriage is not an "oh sh1t, nevermind" kind of deal, IMO. They wanted to act like adults when they had the wedding, now they can act like adults and live with their mistakes. Until they have tried absolutely everything to make their marriage work I will judge them, hard.

This goes hand in hand with my belief that no one is entitled to happiness. When you fvck up your life, you don't get a do-over just because it makes you sad.

ReturnOfKuus · June 2010

Eh. I don't think that marriage should be a "you made your bed, you lie in it" sort of situation. To me, that's the kind of thing that devalues it as an institution.

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